Don’t Be A Decoy - Romans 12:9-21 (Wednesday Night Reflection)
My family and I are
always playing games with words, particularly when it comes to the meaning of
words. So it should have been no
surprise to me, when last week, my niece Erin came up to me after she came back
to the Island from Black Friday shopping, seeing all the signs, and said, “so
where’s the real festival if that’s the decoy?”
I have to tell you that
as I heard about the Decoy Festival before we arrived, I was real
perplexed. I was thinking to myself,
“what’s the big deal about decoys”? I
mean, up to that point, my encounters with decoys were limited to those
obviously fake plastic ducks sitting in ponds…to me the only folks that would
be celebrating are the hunters who used them to lure in some pretty
near-sighted ducks.
However, upon coming to
the Island and visiting in your homes and going through the museum, I have been
awestruck. The gifted artwork of so many
of y’all and others across this Island just amazes me. The detailed work on the wooden decoys I have
seen is unbelievable…many decoys looking amazingly lifelike. The real festival is here…and it is not a
simply a “decoy” festival, but a festival celebrating the amazing God-given
talents of master artists and craftsmen and women.
However, it is in
thinking about all of this that God led me to this evening’s message. You see, despite all the amazing work that
goes into these lifelike decoys, down to the ruffle of feathers on a birds
wings, they are not real…they are pieces of wood painted up to appear lifelike.
Over the last half
century, across the nation, there has been a decline in church attendance,
particularly a decline of young folks in church. I will have to say that Harkers Island has
more young people not only in attendance of Sunday morning but also actively
involved in the church than any church I have pastored. However, there are many young folks, many
folks of all ages, across this Island and across the nation who are not in
church. There have been a lot of surveys
of those who are not churched or who have left churches…one of the most common
reasons given for their not being in church or their leaving of the church is
that the church was filled with decoys.
Well, to be truthful, the
word “decoy” is not the word that is often used because they are not talking
about beautifully carved wooden birds. The
must often use the word “hypocrites” or “fake.”
What they claim they encounter in church are those who purport
themselves to be strong Christians, readily criticizing the sin of others, who
are really no different than the rest of the world, or the sinners they are
condemning.
Now don’t get me
wrong. They are not talking about
encountering folks in church who confess to being sinners on the same journey
that they are on, but they are encountering folks that claim to have it
altogether and look down upon those who aren’t at the same level as they
are. They hear us talk about “loving our
neighbor as themselves” at church and then hear jokes or putdowns of others who
are of different ethnicities or even localities. They hear us talk about forgiveness but then
witness folks that won’t talk to the person sitting on the other side of the
sanctuary because of something that happened ten months or ten years ago. They hear us talk about grace but then hear
folks passing judgment about how someone looks.
They hear us praising God on Sundays and Wednesdays and cursing out the
person who has 15 items in the 12 item or less line. They hear us call Jesus Lord of our Lives,
but witness that we only bow to Him when there’s not a sporting event, families
not in town, there’s not a slick cam, or we’re not tired. What these unchurched and previously churched
are claiming to encounter are folks that imply they have it all together,
knocking on the door of perfection, when in reality they are just a piece of
wood we have painted up to look like the real thing.
My brothers and sisters,
we have to ensure that we are not decoys.
How do we do that? First, we need
to be perfectly transparent about the fact that none of us have it all together. We are all journeyers on the path to perfect
Christlikeness—none of us reaching that final transformation that will happen
when we see Him face to face.
Secondly, though
admitting that we don’t have it altogether, we are to strive to be the “real
thing”—like Pinocchio who strove to be a “real boy,” and not just a block of
wood carved out by Geppetto, we are called to strive to be “true
disciples.” What does that look
like? Paul gives us a strong starting point—LET
LOVE BE GENUINE (in other words our love need to be true, not a decoy). What does true, authentic, genuine love look
like? Paul fleshes out how it should
look like in our flesh:
W Hate what is evil and hold fast to
what is good. May we never embrace evil for the sake of convenience or profit
and may we never avoid good because it may be costly or difficult.
W Love one another with mutual
affection.
W Outdo one another in showing honor.
W Do not lag in zeal, be ardent in
spirit, serve the Lord. Our service to
Christ in the world should not be sluggish or reluctant, but passionate and
excited.
W Rejoice in hope, be patient in
suffering, persevere in prayer. We have
to keep praying and keep hoping. We are
not to be people of worst case scenario or doomsday soothsayers. We are not simply optimists, but those who
know God will act.
W Contribute to the needs of the
saints; extend hospitality to strangers.
We are to be people of generosity—to all.
W Bless those who persecute you—bless
and do not curse them…do not repay anyone evil for evil…never avenge
yourselves…if your enemies are hungry, feed them; if they are thirsty, give
them something to drink. We are to trust
vengeance and judgment to God, and we are supposed to reflect the same love to
our enemies that Christ did for His…He loved them to the point of dying for
them…dying for you and for me...
W Rejoice with those who
rejoice…celebrating their blessings, not being jealous of them…
W Weep with those who weep…we are
sympathetic and empathetic…
W Live in harmony with one another…we
see to get along with those around us…we are not to be argumentative for the
sake of starting an argument…
W Associate with the lowly…we aren’t to
think we are too good to associate with anyone…regardless of which side of the
tracks, or Mason-Dixon line they are from…
W So far as it depends on you, live
peaceably with all. It doesn’t matter if
someone else has crossed the line, we are to hold fast to a Christlike
response…
Finally, in realizing how
hard it is to be a genuine and real disciple on our own, we are to turn
ourselves over to the Master Craftsman.
There is no fairy that can make us real.
Only the master carver, the master potter, the master of all creation
can change us from lumps of clay into the breathing faithful…from decoys into
authentic disciples. We simply surrender
our lives to Him and allow Him to breathe His Spirit into us…and when we are
dependent upon the power of the Spirit and not our own, we will find ourselves
being transformed from decoys into authentic, Spirit-filled, faithful-living,
disciples of Christ.
In the Name of the Father
and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
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