Baptism: God’s Gift of a New Family- Ephesians 4:1-16
We've seen those kinds of stories before...instances of unexpected
new families. Maybe they don't always
happen like they did with this Sally and Jason...inheriting four children, due
to the death of a friend, but it could happen.
It could happen with the unexpected death of a family member. It could happen with a marriage. That is how it happened for me. I married Anita and instantly, with Natalie
and Ben, we became a family of four as the minister said, "I now pronounce
you husband and wife." There was no
slow development into a family of four (but slowly, after two years to a family
of five after Davey was born), the preacher and we said the words, and ‘boom’
instant family.
Last week we began talking about Baptism as God’s gift to us, or
actually, we began talking about baptism as the recognition of God’s gift of
grace. We came to understand baptism as
the fact that God’s grace began working in us before we were even aware of
it…remember that John Wesley called this type of grace, prevenient grace. We use the water as a physical sign of what
God is already doing.
I also shared, last week, that with baptism comes many more gifts
from God, other than simply us recognizing God’s grace. This week, we examine the first of those
gifts, the gift of a new family.
In our baptismal ritual, there are several reminders of this gift,
of baptism drawing us into a new family---the family of Christ:
We begin the ritual acknowledging, “…Through the Sacrament of
Baptism, we are initiated into Christ’s holy church.” Yes, that says, “Christ’s holy church,” and
not anything about Christ’s family.
However, later in the service, once the individual has received the
waters of baptism, the individual is presented to the congregation, “Now it is
our joy to welcome our new sisters and/or brothers in Christ”; then the
congregation responds, “Through baptism you are incorporated by the Holy Spirit
into God’s new creation and made to share In Christ’s royal priesthood. We are all one in Christ Jesus. With joy and thanksgiving we welcome you as
members of the family of Christ.”
The understanding has to come from more than our ritual
though…because then our understanding would be based upon nothing more than
man-made words. It has to come from
more. It does…more than man’s words, it
comes from God’s Word.
Jesus, through the Gospels, says, “Whoever does the will of God is
my brother and sister and mother.”[i]
Paul continues this thinking repeatedly, “For all who are led by
the Spirit of God are children of God… you have received a spirit of
adoption. When we cry, “Abba! Father!”
it is that very Spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then
heirs, heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ…”[ii] Paul continues on, “For those whom [God]
foreknew He also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order
that [His Son] might be the firstborn within a large family.”[iii]
More than our ritual, God’s Word makes it clear that we are not a
bunch of individual strangers sitting here, but we are brothers and sisters
Christ…one family. Today’s reading makes
it even clearer that it is our baptism that binds us: “There is one body and
one Spirit, just as you were called to the one hope of your calling, one Lord,
one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of us all, who is above all and
through all and in all.”[iv]
In our one baptism, the baptism that joins us to Christ and to one
another through the power of the Holy Spirit, we have received a gift from
God…a gift of family that answers the quandary that God spoke at Creation that
“it is not good that man should be alone.”[v] Just as God created the gift of family at
Creation by bringing Eve into being and joining her to Adam, so to God brings
us out of the loneliness of our existence and binds us to one another, not as
husband and wife, but as brothers and sisters through Christ.
Unfortunately, for some of us, though, family carries with it
negative connotations. Some of our
earthly families have caused deep scars in our understanding of family. Instances of abuse and neglect, infidelity
and abandonment, arguments and silence cause us to tremble, cry, or even revolt
when we hear the word family. When it
does not call us to react in that way, it may make us think that those things,
the abuse, neglect, infidelity, abandonment, arguments, and silence are normal,
and if they happen in our earthly families, then they are part of the way we
should act within our church family. We
find times in our church family where we argue and bicker, fuss and fight,
where we may even abuse or neglect one another, or where we may even simply
abandon our church family all together, either because something we think is
better comes along, or because things do not go the way we want.
When that happens, my brothers and sisters, we have it backward,
we are letting the world inform our understanding of what God’s family should
look like. The way it should work,
though, is for God’s idea of family to shape and direct how our earthly family
relates.
So how does God expect His family to relate to one another? Paul’s words to the Ephesians offers us a
clear picture: “…lead a life worthy of
the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness,
with patience, bearing with one another in love, making every effort to
maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.”[vi]
Paul makes it clear that what it means to live as the family of
that God calls us into is one filled with humility…the act of places others
above our one wants and desires. God’s
family life is one filled with gentleness, making the effort to treat one another
in such a way that they are not harmed.
That means that there may be times where we offer correction to one
another, but it is offered in such a way that we do not hurt or destroy one
another. This life together is to be
marked with patience, bearing with one another in love. God continues to be patient with us when we
fail or disappoint Him, and God expects us to do the same with our brothers and
sisters in this family. We are not to
get fed up and walk off, we are to be patient and stick it out. We are also to make every effort to live in
peace with one another, every effort to maintain unity in our family. That means that we seek to try and live
together in harmony…we do not use what someone does or does not do, says or
does not say, as an excuse for us to act ugly…but that we are to make the extra
effort to maintain the peace of the family.
Paul goes on to tell us that God’s Spirit pours gifts into our
lives and reminds us that those gifts are not for building up ourselves…not for
seeing how much fame, fortune, or power we can attain for ourselves, but that
God has given us those gifts “to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for
building up the body of Christ, until all of us come to the unity of the faith
and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to maturity, to the measure of the full
stature of Christ.” Living in God’s
family is living for the sake of others…living for the sake of building up and
strengthening one another to be able to live our lives as God calls us to
live. It is about helping the family
“grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ….” It is about doing everything to “promote the
body’s growth in building itself up in love.”
All that we do as a family should be reflective of the love that Christ
has shown us by bringing us into His family and causing us to love one another
which Christ-like passion.
My friends, maybe we came here today like Jason and Sally showing
up at that office. We came because
someone told us we needed to be here…or they wanted us to be here. Maybe we came because something beyond us
urged you to be here. Maybe we do not
know why we came.
The important thing is that we showed up.
Maybe we came today and felt alone or isolated. Maybe we came today having been part of one
of those families who made us feel anything but loved.
God does not intend for us to feel that way. He offers us a gift. He offers us this water. He reminds us that we are to be part of a
family far greater than this world. He
reminds some of us that we are already part of that family and are called to
live like our older brother, His only begotten Son, Jesus. For some of us, He is calling us and
welcoming us, back into the family, because we have traveled to a far off
country, like the prodigal son. He is saying,
“welcome home, you are still family.”
For others of us, He is saying, “Come, be part of this family, I have
brought you here, be part of My family.”
It is the gift of an instant family…not due to marriage vows, but
a baptismal promise…not due to the death of a friend or family member, but due
to the death and resurrection of our Savior. Whichever the case may be for us,
the invitation is there…will we accept the gift of family that Baptism
brings?
In the Name of the Father and of the Son and of
the Holy Spirit. Amen.
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